Lost your job

Losing your job isn’t the end of the world

First of all – don’t panic and don’t blame yourself for everything! It’s really not the end of the world. Depending on their knowledge and interests, everyone can find at least a couple of alternatives even when their employment status is positive.

When it comes to recovering from the initial shock, once you become fully aware of your own strength, you’ll never want to go back to the old ways again.

So, now what?

First step: Calm down

Unemployment can hit you hard. And that’s perfectly normal because unemployment triggers a dozen of potential complications in life. However, keep in mind that in spite of not being able to retain the job, you are in full control of how you are going to react to the situation. Stress management is a specific skill we all need 24/7. Calm down because you don’t need to lose your health too.

Second step: Beat the frustration and anger

Once the initial shock passes, you are likely to feel disappointed and frustrated. But questioning all your past moves and the things you’ve said and done won’t be of any use to you. Make a list of dos and don’ts instead and then stick to it. More than anything else, the balanced reaction will help you come out of this frustrating and unpleasant situation.

Third step: Ask for help

Losing your job - Ask for help

In this situation, you need to beat the pride and ask others to help you.

Yes, there will be people out there who will try to take credit for your accomplishments if they helped you at some point. In spite of what might happen later, you should stay focused on handling the present situation. If you know someone who is influential in a company that hires people with the set of skills that you have, don’t hesitate to make a call. Similarly, if your current situation demands urgent financial help, feel free to call your friends and colleagues who might be in a position to save you from further stressing. Whether they will help you or not is entirely up to them, but you should definitely ask for a helping hand from those who claim they love you and want only the best for you.

Fourth step: Become a freelancer

Become a freelancer

The source of unlimited possibilities lies within your laptop if you know how to use it. In order to be competitive, it’s in your best interest to improve your English skills, as well as to enroll in a course that can help you understand the online market.

Many people have found their new careers online. The possibilities are practically limitless. For example, filling out paid surveys online is what you can do in your spare time. Also, you can become a content writer or a blogger and turn both your writing skills and life experiences into an exciting career that leaves much more space to enjoy other activities. Creative souls can make unique storage boxes or jewellery. Others can simply resell items using various popular online platforms.

Fifth step: Keep expanding your knowledge and skills

No matter how bad things may look, always remember that life is very unpredictable and that a new opportunity might suddenly emerge when you expect it the least.

This is why it’s extremely important to stay up-to-date with the newest trends in your industry. In order to be able to bounce back, you’ll have to expand the scope of your knowledge. So, don’t let the disappointment get you to the point that you start fading away from the scene.

Also, there are plenty of online resources that you can use to develop new skills.

Sixth step: You must always believe in yourself

always believe in yourslelf

You know how people say that everything in life depends on how you choose to see it? Remember that you can either be your biggest fan or your worst enemy. So, choose hope over destructiveness. Pick the hard work instead of frustration. As you can see, being unemployed gives you time to think about other possibilities you never even thought existed. Perhaps losing your job was part of a greater plan for you. While you should have realistic expectations at the beginning of this new chapter, you must always believe in yourself! In a few months, you might be going straight to the top. That’s life.

Transition periods in life are never easy. There’s always a bit of everything, from disappointment and anger to excitement and joy. Try not to be overwhelmed with the circumstances and you’ll find your way through by taking one step at a time.

Mia Taylor

Mia Taylor is a fashion and beauty enthusiast from Sydney and writer for High Style LifeShe loves writing about her life experiences. Travelling and enjoying other cultures and their food with her husband is a big part of her life. She is always on a lookout for new trends in fashion and beauty, and considers herself an expert when it comes to lifestyle tips. You can connect with Mia via Facebook,Twitter